Well… This Is Different
Most resources tell you what to do.
This space is about understanding why you might want to do anything at all.
These pieces aren’t checklists, hacks, or five easy steps to a better life. They’re reflections — written in real time — about fear, freedom, and what happens when you stop pretending you’re not allowed to want something more.
They come from the Loire Valley, yes.
But they’re not really about France.
They’re about that quiet moment most people don’t talk about — when the career worked, the boxes were checked, and yet something still felt unfinished. When comfort started to feel heavier than risk. When the question “Is this it?” wouldn’t shut up.
You’ll find:
• Personal essays, not advice columns
• Stories about starting over without pretending it’s easy
• Observations from someone actually living the change
• Questions meant to linger, not convert
Some pieces are short. Some wander. A few may hit closer to home than expected.
This isn’t motivation.
It’s permission.
Permission to rethink the timeline.
Permission to admit you’re restless.
Permission to imagine a next chapter that isn’t smaller than the last one.
Read slowly. Or don’t.
Just know this space exists for people who suspect — quietly, stubbornly — that life still has more to offer.
And if that makes you uncomfortable?
Good. That usually means you’re close.
Why the Loire Valley works for me
If you’ve reached the point in your career where the accolades feel hollow and the grind feels like a hamster wheel, you’re not alone.
The Real Cost of Staying Comfortable
Comfort is seductive. It tells you you’ve earned a rest. That you’ve done enough. It pats you on the back and whispers, “you’ve made it.”
The Joy That Comes After the Leap
No one really tells you what happens after you finally do it. Who do you become after you stop talking about the dream and actually make it real?
The Feeling Even the French Don’t Know the Name For
The French have a word for the feeling of being out of place. It is one of those enigmatic words that conveys an entire feeling, action, and atmosphere all at once.
Why The Fourth Quarter Doesn’t Have to Be a Slow Fade.
You only get one fourth quarter. And it doesn’t have to be a slow fade. It can be the exclamation point on a life well lived.
Why Reinventing Your Life in Europe Might Be the Smartest Move You’ll Ever Make
For many, Europe isn’t just a change of scenery—it’s a change of pace. A shift from the relentless grind toward something richer and more intentional.