The Practical Guide to Moving to France — Before, During, and After the Move

Get Frenched began as the book I wish someone had handed me before we sold our life in California and moved to a 250-year-old winery in rural France. I wanted a guide that explained the paperwork, the banking, the healthcare, and the endless bureaucracy without reading like it had been written by the Department of Motor Vehicles.

I couldn't find one, so I wrote it.

Inside you'll find practical guidance for every stage of the move, from planning and visas to settling into everyday life once you arrive. But you'll also discover something most relocation guides leave out: what the experience actually feels like.

The book is written the same way I tell stories on We Got Frenched: with humor, honesty, and the understanding that if you're going to spend months untangling French bureaucracy, you might as well have a laugh while you're doing it.

Whether you're actively planning a move, dreaming about one, or simply curious about what it's really like to start over in another country, Get Frenched will prepare you for far more than the paperwork.

"If you are moving to France, this is a must read. It is packed with practical information about how to prepare for the move and thrive in France. Once you start reading, it is hard to put down. Paul has written a masterpiece on how to move, survive and thrive in France!"

Angela F. Sims Evans

“Moving to another country is never simply about logistics. It is about identity, belonging, and learning to live life through a different lens. Get Frenched captures this truth beautifully, blending practical advice with vivid personal storytelling.

The author does not romanticize France into a postcard fantasy, nor does he dwell on frustrations. He paints a balanced picture of what it means to uproot your life and plant it in French soil.

In short, Get Frenched is more than a relocation manual. It is a companion for anyone curious about living authentically in another culture.”

Lois Mills

“I thoroughly enjoyed the book. It is the best “move to another country” book that I’ve read, and I’ve read quite a few researching for my next move.”

Angela Clenney

“Très bon! Merci beaucoup - I can't wait to dig in! Your posts are such an inspiration - both for the good and the "challenging" experiences.” 

Shannon H.

“Bonjour!

Thank you for this resource.  I believe it might be exactly what I need - so much confusing, and often conflicting, information out there.”

Tamra K